I was tolerating these things and had adapted strategies for them. But none of the strategies contemplated the removal of the thing I was tolerating because I didn't want to ruin the clothes. However, I was getting to the point where I didn't even want to wear them because of the scratchy tags or the need for a certain type of shirt.
So, I pulled out the pants and looked them over. The tag in the first two pair of pants was firmly stitched through to the outside of the band. Removing the stitching would leave faded mark around the stitching through-holes but this could be covered up by a belt if necessary. Upon evaluation, I removed the tag.
The tag in the third pair of pants was firmly embedded in the stitching of the rear seam. At first I thought removal would make them unwearable but I realized that all I would need to do is visit the seamstress and have them mended. Since I would never wear them again as they were, I decided to restitch.
The pants example is simple but it made me think - how many purposeless irritations do we tolerate because we haven't seriously evaluated:
- What are you giving up? For me it was an itch free existence, the freedom to enjoy wearing those pants, and the freedom to do laundry less often with these in the rotation.
- What are you suffering through? Again, for me it was wearing scratchy, itchy, irritating clothes.
- What damage would you cause if you addressed the problem? My pants would have exposed stitch holes and one pair would have an interrupted seam.
- Is that damage repairable? Yes, with a visit to the seamstress in one case and a belt in the other.
I'm much happier wearing these pants now because I have removed a purposeless irritation of scratchy tags in a manner that did no irreparable damage. This is a super simple example but sometimes that helps us become aware of the more abstract areas of life where this occurs.
What purposeless irritations can you remove today?